So I turn 22 this Friday and honestly ive only ever had one girlfriend and we met online when I was 16 that only lasted a month after we met but since her I have never had any other girlfriend and its starting to get to me as I get older I can talk to dudes like their my homies even when I dont know them but I cant seem to ever get the courage to talk to a girl that I see out in public no girls ever approach me or ever look my way when I go to bars I sit by my self in hopes of someone coming up and talking to me but its never happened ita like they pay no attention to me I should add im 5'10 125 i dress awesome I have my own style that I know girls prob like but when facial fetures come into play alot of people made fun of me growing up because of the shape of my head I don't see a problem at all but that could just be because ive seen my self alot I also had a lot of acne growing up as a kid it stopped pretty much vut my cheeks area looks like I've had acne in the past so my skin isnt the greatest.but I was born drug addicted to cocaine when I was born and I was born with a flat spot behind my head guys have always told me I'm ugly and so have some of my so called friends so with all that its brought my self esteem down so much that I'm afraid of approaching girls because I feel like their not even gonna wanna talk to me and because i have 0 confidence and i know they can probably see that im getting really lonely because I have no one to be with I'm alone and honestly I do a lot of things alone I go out alone 60 percent of the time bexause its easier I do have a lot of friends and we go out sometimes and they get girls when we go out I know exactly how to treat a girl and im honestly really a nice guy I just domt have any confidence I've had sex with the girl I met online when I was 16 one time and the only other time was with a stripper a year ago which doesnt count but I'm just looking for someone to be with already and since I'm turning 22 this Friday I feel like my best years are running out I also live in a downtown area any help would be great im not looking for self putty saying oh it doesnt matter youll find someone vecause if that were true id have female friends or girls I could talk to ita like they obviously don't want me
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