Did I do something wrong?
hatim sama
October 08, 2026
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M, 27. I went on a date and I felt great about it. It’s been several years since I’ve been on one so I felt a bit rusty at first. Convos wer...
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Thursday, October 8, 2026
Wednesday, October 7, 2026
Dating an avoidant and text harassment
hatim sama
October 07, 2026
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I was dating an avoidant and she pretty much would barely communicate as much as I said its okay to do so. She said she felt I had unrealist...
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Tuesday, October 6, 2026
Has anyone had a dating app date hide a noticeable physical condition in their photos?
hatim sama
October 06, 2026
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A few months ago I went on a Hinge date with a guy I’d talked to for over two weeks. When we met, I realised he had a very noticeable eye mi...
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Monday, October 5, 2026
Is he gonna expect something in return?
hatim sama
October 05, 2026
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So I’ve been talking to this guy for like a month, we live in 2 different cities, but we’ve planned a date to go to a concert in my city. He...
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Sunday, October 4, 2026
Maybe I should just give up
hatim sama
October 04, 2026
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29m. I'm relatively happy single these days. I love my family, my dog, like my job, have a few friends and do sports. I'm more conf...
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Saturday, October 3, 2026
How to explain the reason why my last relationship ended?
hatim sama
October 03, 2026
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I (25M) don't know how I should handle it if I were asked why my last relationship ended when dating someone new. Because the answer wou...
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Friday, October 2, 2026
What are the things/features/traits a guy looks for in a girl ge is meeting/seeing for the first time??
hatim sama
October 02, 2026
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Also not just the obvious features ykw I'm talking about 🤧 submitted by /u/Sad_Mango_4899 [link] [comments] from Dating A...
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Thursday, October 1, 2026
Is this normal for online dating ??
hatim sama
October 01, 2026
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So I downloaded tinder and matched with a few and this is the conversation Johnny: Hey 👋 You: Hey! Johnny: How are you Johnny: Nice...
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Wednesday, September 30, 2026
Is this going too fast?
hatim sama
September 30, 2026
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So I met this guy on a dating app and conversation through text was amazing. We met up and it was an amazing first date. He is so dang attra...
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I met a woman in my gym
hatim sama
September 30, 2026
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I'm a 21M college student staying in a hostel. Me and a few hostel mates go to the same gym regularly. There's a woman there who is ...
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Tuesday, September 29, 2026
Kissed a friend on a night out and haven’t heard from him since
hatim sama
September 29, 2026
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As the title says. We are not best friends or hangout regularly but had close ex colleagues type of friendship. Don’t want to give out too...
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Monday, September 28, 2026
Boyfriend called me a “greedy b1tch” for taking a last piece of quesadilla.
hatim sama
September 28, 2026
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At my brother’s wedding this last weekend I was a bridesmaid and had to do all those activities of pictures and a reading at the church and ...
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Sunday, September 27, 2026
First date at 30
hatim sama
September 27, 2026
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I’ve been using various dating apps and matched with someone on Facebook dating. We’ve been talking online for 2 weeks and finally I asked h...
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Saturday, September 26, 2026
The dating market is full of esotericism, and it’s sad
hatim sama
September 26, 2026
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This kind of talk borders on tin-foil-hat thinking. Most of the time, people don't even know what confidence is or how it develops. Conf...
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Friday, September 25, 2026
I am a 20(F) and I want a boyfriend, any advice ?
hatim sama
September 25, 2026
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Hi I need advice cause I don’t know who to ask about this in my life without feeling embarrassed. Well I have asked my mum before but she sa...
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Thought it was casual, so why am I getting texts like this?
hatim sama
September 25, 2026
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edit: yes to preface I’m aware yes the title isn’t great, and although it was explicitly discussed at the beginning it’s not looking casual ...
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Thursday, September 24, 2026
For men, what percentage of your matches have lead to dates?
hatim sama
September 24, 2026
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Im not talking about the ones that dont make it past a few sentences, but more so the matches youve had convos with over the course of a few...
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Lovebombed?
hatim sama
September 24, 2026
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So I (33F) went on Tinder for the first time in my life about three months ago after being single for almost 2 years. Did have some roman...
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Wednesday, September 23, 2026
How to: Approach a man at the gym?
hatim sama
September 23, 2026
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Hey! Any advice on how to successfully approach a man at the gym without any discomfort or awkwardness? I typically do not approach men I f...
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Tuesday, September 22, 2026
I feel like I'm taking too much responsibility in the planning... let her?
hatim sama
September 22, 2026
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So I have been dating this woman for over a month... Thus far I have planned 3 dates... first dating being dinner and an activity, second d...
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Monday, September 21, 2026
There's nothing worse than when you loved them more than anyone has ever loved them and moved mountains for them and they still didn't choose you
hatim sama
September 21, 2026
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Life's cruel. But you just can't love someone strong enough to make them stay. That's the hardest lesson. I would've died f...
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Sunday, September 20, 2026
What would you think if your partner made you sleep in the guest room?
hatim sama
September 20, 2026
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I'm (28F) have been dating this guy (26M) for about 6 weeks. Unfortunately, I suffer from anxiety surrounding eating, sleeping, and trav...
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Saturday, September 19, 2026
Is this a sign I should take a break from dating? I met some I am really captivated by, and I find it terrifying.
hatim sama
September 19, 2026
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I kinda to get other people's takes on my situation. For context I am 30 year old guy. I'd say I am good looking, fit, popular, I h...
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Friday, September 18, 2026
Should I ask my date what his intentions are before our third date?
hatim sama
September 18, 2026
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I'm Indian, and I've been talking to an American guy for three weeks. We've been on two dates, and our third date is tomorrow. I...
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Thursday, September 17, 2026
Ex coworker from 4 years ago goes to my gym. Do I go for it?
hatim sama
September 17, 2026
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Yesterday I (M31) was working out at my gym. I'm a very long time gym goer so I'm on autopilot 90% of the time there just going thro...
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Video games on hinge?
hatim sama
September 17, 2026
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Gaming is one of my main hobbies (27 M) and probably is the one I spend the most time doing (I play all sorts of games). That being said, I’...
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Wednesday, September 16, 2026
Ex wife
hatim sama
September 16, 2026
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Should a person dating a guy who’s divorced contact their ex to talk about their relationship. It’s been 6 months to us dating submitted...
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Tuesday, September 15, 2026
Advice about going on the 2nd date.
hatim sama
September 15, 2026
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I've been single for 10 years (I'm 31M now). I've only had 1 relationship, which ended when I was 21/22 and have only really hav...
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Monday, September 14, 2026
Dating after long relationships
hatim sama
September 14, 2026
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Im 32F and I’ve been in long relationships (7yr and 3yrs) and I think I don’t know what the fuck I’m doing. I’m trying to date but find im t...
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HELP DOES THIS GUY LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST FRIENDLY?
hatim sama
September 14, 2026
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okay so i recently met this guy through guitar. i initially approached him because i wanted someone to teach me guitar, and he offered to te...
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Sunday, September 13, 2026
Is there ever an excuse for a man not texting back?
hatim sama
September 13, 2026
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I met a guy from hinge last week (both late 20s). The first date was perfect. I realised I liked him on the date and there were no red flags...
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My ex boyfriend is getting married
hatim sama
September 13, 2026
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The problem is we’ve been together last year for a month. I broke up with him because he was too toxic and overprotective over me,for a whil...
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Saturday, September 12, 2026
She said no weeks ago, but kept coming to talk to me now
hatim sama
September 12, 2026
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Both of us are 16. Maybe this isn't the right sub for this, but I'd hope to get some opinions. Sorry for the long post. There is th...
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Friday, September 11, 2026
Am I asking for too much or is it over
hatim sama
September 11, 2026
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Context I’m 27F and my boyfriend is 27M and we are in India My boyfriend and I have been together since May 2025, and officially became a c...
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Thursday, September 10, 2026
Why do I tend to "date" men who really like me but never enough to commit?
hatim sama
September 10, 2026
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Is it me? Or is just a coincidence and bad luck? I (29F) never looked for love, never felt desperate to find someone, I was always fine on ...
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Wednesday, September 9, 2026
How often are you texting between dates?
hatim sama
September 09, 2026
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I’ve gone on 4 very successful dates with a girl. She asked me back to her place after the 3rd date but she fell asleep on the couch while w...
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Tuesday, September 8, 2026
Should I get flowers?
hatim sama
September 08, 2026
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Matched with a girl on hinge, her note said “the key to my heart is flowers and a Red Bull,” I asked what kind of Red Bull. After we talk fo...
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Monday, September 7, 2026
30F – Getting into dating after almost 11 years together. SEND HELP
hatim sama
September 07, 2026
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TL;DR: 30F, single after almost 11 years together, and basically skipped dating in my 20s. Utterly clueless about modern dating. HELP A GIR...
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Sunday, September 6, 2026
Questions about signals
hatim sama
September 06, 2026
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Was on a first date and she: - floated future potential plans - rubbed my arm - made sexual innuendos - asked if we could go for a walk ...
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Saturday, September 5, 2026
confused by shift in communication after a -supposedly- great first date
hatim sama
September 05, 2026
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Not sure how to wrap my head around this, so here's the context: Me (34m) and this person (30f) match in a dating app a couple of weeks...
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Friday, September 4, 2026
Should I text him or is it too late?
hatim sama
September 04, 2026
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Ok so I went to this restaurant that’s near my house, and I saw this waiter who I thought was cute. I decided to leave my socials with the g...
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Thursday, September 3, 2026
I abruptly ended a low-effort situationship after a week of silent treatment and blocked him. Was his polite response just an ego defense?
hatim sama
September 03, 2026
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I was recently seeing a guy for two months. The dynamic was high-voltage and great when we were together—high intimacy, warm energy, and no ...
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Wednesday, September 2, 2026
Not sure what I'm doing wrong on first dates
hatim sama
September 02, 2026
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Over the past year, I've gone on a few dates with men that approached me first, seemed into the date, and seemed positive about it after...
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Tuesday, September 1, 2026
I think I just got stood up and now don’t really know where to go. (M22/F22)
hatim sama
September 01, 2026
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Had plans to go out on a third date with a girl tonight that we’d arranged a few days ago. We hadn’t spoken for two days, so I messaged her ...
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Monday, August 31, 2026
Guy suddenly changed his mind after the 4th date, no explanation
hatim sama
August 31, 2026
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I've seen this man for 2 weeks and the intensity of the dates was great. We met on bumble and he brought me flowers on the first date, s...
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Sunday, August 30, 2026
24M|Advice after BREAKUP
hatim sama
August 30, 2026
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So, here’s the thing. I’m a 24-year-old guy, average-built, and I’ve had two serious relationships. The most recent one lasted about 1.3 yea...
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Saturday, August 29, 2026
I need advice on how to deal with an almost relationship I have.
hatim sama
August 29, 2026
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So, I am an 18 year old guy in my senior year of high school and I have never dated or had any experience with romantic relationships before...
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Friday, August 28, 2026
the guy who likes me was begging me to stay yesterday and begging me to block him from everywhere today. help?
hatim sama
August 28, 2026
0
so this guy and i have been talking on and off for around 2-3 years, and in some time around this i got to know that he had a crush on me be...
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