A girl (f20) and I (m20) met on Bumble 3 months ago, chatted a bit because she wasn't in town and then we had weekly dates for one month.
She then went on vacation with her family and girlfriends, so last week we saw each other for the first time in 1,5 months, during this time we stayed in touch and texted daily. I'm the one who suggested all the dates, planned them and initiates contact most of the them. She also commutes so she's generally only in my city around 4 to 5 days a week.
Now I told her that I'd like things to progress a bit more and that I'd enjoy 1 to 2 dates per week and that I'd like to see a bit more investment from her side, so I feel wanted too. She replied by telling me that for her it feels like we just started dating, she's not as invested as I am and she doesn't think that she can make 2 dates per week. She wants to think things over over the weekend but I assume it's pretty much over. Did I move to quickly or is there any compromise we could reach?
E: she also told me that she's quite distant emotionally and it takes veeery long for her to open herself up
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