Okay so I really need to know if this is a dumb idea. I see this girl a few times a week and I asked her out for coffee a couple of months ago. It was kind of dumb, I hadn't built up to it (was very out of the blue) and I did it over Facebook because I couldn't get her alone. I hadn't really talked to her a ton in person. She said she wasn't dating right now. Fast forward to now. I didn't pursue her for a date but I did try talking to her and flirting more whenever I saw her in person. She does flirt back and I honestly feel like there is good chemistry and that the way I approached asking her out was really awkward and played a role in the rejection. I want to respect the fact she said she wasn't dating, but I really do like her and wanted to sort of say my peace. I've considered just straight up saying something like "I know you said you weren't dating and I respect that, but I really like you and I would still really love to take you out for a coffee if you ever decide to start dating again". And then just completely drop it. It's as much about saying my peace and moving on as it is about giving it another shot. If I had less interest I would just drop it.
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