He tried to make me jealous so I cut it off. Why do guys do this? Did I do the right thing?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a month. Not exclusive. You know the type, stupid attractive player.

We really hit it off and he told me many times “I’m catching feelings for you” “if we get married...” etc.

He did everything right. He would clear his schedule to see me, pay for all our dates, plan things for us, make plans way in advance, told me he sees a future with me.

Then we were out the other day and something suddenly switched in him and he started acting too cool or just generally disrespectful. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and didn’t say anything but pulled back.

A couple days ago I had an emergency and needed him to help me take care of some stuff. He dropped his plans and came to help me.

It came to a point where I needed a ride today and I was going to Uber but he insisted on driving from an hour away to take me himself. Then when he picked me up, he’s acting like a dick again. I saw him get on tinder and he directly said something like “yeah I’m gunna find me one of those bro ho lake bitches. Eyyy you mad?” And I’m like “nah. You should. I hear they’re crazy in bed”

He was very clearly trying to see my reaction to it. He did that the other day too. I think he’s used to girls chasing him, begging for his attention and getting jealous. He’s a 10 for sure.

But I’m not one of those girls. So I got out of the car without a word. I’m a very authentic person, so I texted him this:

I appreciate you helping me out. I probably don’t need to say this, it seems like you feel the same way, but being honest with people in my life is important to me. I really had a lot of fun hanging out with you. I even thought we could be something. But I don’t like the way you make me feel anymore. I’m looking for something more. I hope you have a wonderful trip. Thanks for the good times.

He said “ok” and immediately blocked me on every channel possible, lol. I honestly wager this is the first time a girl has been honest with him and not played his games.

I feel kind of bad though. I was honest and kind but him blocking me on everything makes me think I hurt him.

I know exactly what I’m looking for. And he ain’t it.

I guess I’m just mostly confused as to why he would do that in the first place? And why he would block me everywhere possible? I thought people would appreciate honesty and authenticity? Why would he try to make me jealous if he wanted something real?

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