So I’ve gotten many matches over the years on Tinder, but every time I attempt to either meet up or “date” or do anything in person, I get the usual “Maybe” or “Sure!” Proceeded by never having her talk to me again.
I have attempted so many times. I had a girl tell me 10 minutes before a date that she decided to go out with someone else. I had one girl never show up to our date and I even waited an hour. Both of these cases we had snapped, texted, and talked about a lot of stuff.
I want to think I am attractive, but I don’t know anymore. I also don’t know if my personality makes them get turned off. I just want to go on one date. That’s it. I’m not trying to fuck them day 1. Hell, I don’t even give the impression that I’m looking for sex. Instead I always ask them about family, jobs, life. I treat each and every one of them as human.
I should also mention that I do not get angry at these girls who do this stuff. For instance, the girl who told me she decided to go out with another guy, I simply said “Oh, ok...it would have been nice to be told that you decided not to go, but I hope your date goes well.” I know, stupid of me to say something nice, but I just can’t be mean or spiteful to these people even if they burn me.
I think I deviated, but what cause me not to get a date or rather actually go on a planned date? I just don’t want the gut feeling like I’ve had with many of these girls when they either ghost, lie, or go on dates with other people the same day we had planned.
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