Hi Reddit,
It's 1am in the morning here in the UK and I just wanted to share a good news story from Tinder for those that are maybe a little disheartened or struggling.
So for context I've been single for a year after having my heart torn out and ripped into a billion pieces about a year ago. I was convinced that I'd lost the love of my life and that I'd never find anyone who would love me again. I threw myself into Tinder dates which to no avail just didn't work out. I met some assholes, I met some weirdos, I met some lovely people that I just didn't click with romantically. And I was feeling pretty low and fed up with the entire dating scene.
Anyhow, I decide to actually go on this final tinder date last month as I was bored as hell staying in by myself that night. He was even more good looking in person (not typically a 10/10 but to me, he looks amazing). His voice is the deepest, most attractive thing I can tell you about. And from the get-go there was just very little awkwardness (for a massively awkward person this is massive).
He is smart but modest and humble, he's interesting, he's got the best sense of humour and is loyal to his friends and family and weirdly (I can't understand why) he finds me funny and interesting and good looking too.
I thought that I wouldn't ever feel this way again, and I thought I would compare every other date to my ex that left me...but this feels new and exciting and magical in it's very own right. I know it's early days and I couldn't really tell you what to do step by step to find this with someone, but I do know that I've spent the last year building my confidence back up and becoming happy with myself, and then wham - it just happened!
TL;DR - very damaged from past relationships, growing fed up of dating, felt hopeless and was ready to give in when I've finally met a really amazing and interesting guy
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