Let me start with a bit of background. I'm a dude in my 20s. I'd say I'm above average looking, and I don't really have a lot of trouble getting the first or second date.
My issue is with physical interaction of any kind(even simple stuff like holding their hand or putting my arm around them). I just don't know how to initiate. I have no problem reciprocating and I feel like once I've crossed a certain threshold with someone(as in them getting frustrated and initiating themselves) then I have no trouble going that far again, but I have a lot of trouble going any further. I have markedly less trouble when I'm drunk, but I'm not really into getting drunk very often, so I don't think that's really a viable solution.
I just feel like people get more and more frustrated with my hesitation until they leave because they feel like I'm not into them, but I am. We could get into why I think I have this problem if any of you think it might help solve it, but I was mostly wondering if anyone else has had this problem and how they dealt with it.
TL;DR: I have a trouble with any kind of physical interaction on dates(no matter how casual)
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