Hi, I'm (20/M) and I've known this girl (19/F) for 3 years and we've gotten pretty damn close, talking everyday (either by call or text) and such type of close. During those 3 years she had a boyfriend and she always came to me when things were looking bad, like when he did something wrong she would always come to me for comfort. For these same 3 years she always knew I liked her and she always said it was okay because she really appreciated my friendship.
Eventually I tried to move on and started dating this girl for 6 months, and during this period she started acting strange, like texting me why I was ignoring her lately and even saying she had feelings for me. Anyway, this behaviour led to us getting closer than ever because I still had feelings for her more than anyone and was trying to get over her. So it got sexual and I eventually broke up with the girl I was dating, meanwhile she kept with her boyfriend (while unhappy).
As I want to be brief (you can ask for details if you want to), that leads us to today, where she finally broke up with her boyfriend (a week after we had our first romantic date), and to the whole point of why I came here. Immediately after the break up she started talking less and less to the point of no talking at all, I asked her why she was doing this and she said she just needed time for herself and that I didnt do anything wrong at all and that she was backing off from everyone because she doesn't want to talk whatsoever. I respected her and am currently during No Contact to give her said space and time.
Anyway, she also told me she is seeing this other guy at the moment, which leads me to think I was just used this whole time and that I won't ever be with her. Also, keep in mind that when I say we're really close I mean it, she literally talks to me everyday (at least she used to) about everything and I even got along with her father in the process and found a true friend in him.
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