TL;DR I’m seeing my friends ex, and now she told me she misses him.
OKAY. Let’s get some background. I (23f) am seeing my friends (24f), ex (32m).
Let me start off by saying, they dated very briefly and she ended it because they were into very different things, they wanted different things, and she said she just couldn’t get herself to like him in that way. Let’s also mention that she wasn’t very nice to him, treated him as if he was irrelevant to her life.
I’ve always told her how sweet he is and she’s crazy for not wanting to see him. SHE Brought up the idea of us talking. Since in her words we would be way more compatible. So, essentially we matched on tinder about a month ago. We started talking & I hadn’t told her at that time because it was just so uncomfortable for me, that I was talking to my friends ex boyfriend. So we’ve gone on two dates now and things are going pretty good. We have such a good connection and I just didn’t want to even talk about it with her unless I could see something progressing between the two of us. I have planned to tell her tonight about it because I’m going to his house and he’s making me dinner tonight.
I thought at this point hanging out 3 times is enough to have that conversation, and I don’t at all want to seem like I’m hiding anything from her. I’m just pretty private & I didn’t even want to have this conversation if we hung out and clearly did not have a connection/chemistry. I think that’s fine, since she has on multiple occasions encouraged me to reach out to him and talk to him.
An hour ago she texts me “I miss 32M, but I can’t text him”.
What the FRICK do I do?!? I feel so sick.
Thanks in advance.
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