These past few days have been hard on my mental and I usually come to reddit to relate to others but I think it's time to make my own post.
Me and current boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and let me tell you he's the sweetest and smartest guy you'll meet. He's generous, attractive, very intelligent and motivated, we have the same goals and interests, he's stable and tries really hard for both me and himself. Just all around great guy
He's done nothing wrong and yet I've lost the spark I have for him out OF NO WHERE! I swear to you it just came out of no where and now out of blue in certain times of the day and night I ask myself if I'm "bored" of him
This has made me extremely anxious and unhappy because I WANT to stay in this relationship. You guys don't know how much I love this boy yet I feel as though I don't. It's so weird and troubling. I've cried out of frustration because I want this feeling to GO AWAY.
I've talked to him about it and he's so understanding that he's actually not even mad about it and I told him love fluctuates and that the spark will come back and he said okay. He's anxious too but he wants to work on it with me
Can you guys give me advice? Have you been in this situation before? How did you handle it? Does love really fluctuate? What am I feeling?
TL;DR : I feel as though I'm "getting bored" / falling out of love with someone who I've been waiting to enter my life for a long time and I'm scared. I don't want this feeling to drive me up the wall. I don't want to lose him.
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