Okay this will sound lame but I don’t have just loads of dating experience so bear with me. I also have a touch of social anxiety which causes me to overthink. I really just need some opinions here.
I’m 25F and he’s in his late 20s. We met online and set a date for like 2 weeks out (my fault, I’ve been busy).
He actually surprise knows one of my male coworkers, through his work (related fields) and they both approve of eachother. I know my coworker wouldn’t steer me wrong, so if he thinks the prospect is a good dude, it’s probably true.
I ordinarily don’t like to text too much before the first date, but with this guy for some reason it was so hard to resist. He was charming, mildly flirtatious and seemed interested in my day to day. So I played along, without giving too much. So there would be something to talk about on the actual date.
Now our date is set for the weekend, but he kind of dropped off. I’m following his lead so I’m not trying to make him talk to me or anything.
He was also snap chatting me, and stopped that as well, and just stopped viewing my story today-as where that was happening pretty consistently before.
So what do you all think? I realize he owes me nothing-we haven’t even met yet.
Do you think that he’s just busy? Playing hot and cold to try and get a reaction?
What should I do if he doesn’t reach out again?
Should I just contact him the day before and be like “Hey! Hope the week went well. Are we still on for tomorrow?” Or something?
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