There have been so many situations where things have been going great between me and a girl when suddenly I start to feel like I keep making mistakes.
Even the simple things, such as a text conversation, we’ll be talking constantly and I’ll say one thing and then just no response. I feel like what I say is either awkward, mean, or not what they want to hear and I don’t know what to do.
I always have this gut feeling that we’re starting to drift apart. It happens so often I’ve started to just get pissed when it happens. It’s miserable to feel like you’re a disappointment in someone you really like’s eyes.
I just want to understand why all my relationships go down this road, like a plot chart. At first slow development and connection, then rising action, then a point where were really close, then falling action and ultimately failure. I wish for once my relationships could go steady for a while and I could just enjoy it without this impending doom raining over my head.
At the end of each relationship, I try to figure out what went wrong and at this point it’s starting to baffle me. It feels like the closer people get with me, the more likely I am to lose them. I’ve become apathetic and frustrated with dating. Each time I think it’ll be different. It’s not like I expect to marry each girl I meet but I would at the very least like to have a relationship where I enjoy some peace and steadiness.
Am I just impatient? Is there something inherently wrong with me? I have no clue.
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