We’ve only been on 3 dates and have plans to go out again next weekend.
I have only had one long, serious relationship which was pretty toxic and didn’t end well. I didn’t really start dating again until I was 24. I’ve had a few short (few months) flings since then but haven’t really gotten attached to anyone. I’ve met some cool people, and I would not have minded if I had developed deeper feelings along the way. But it never happened.
Before the second date was over I was feeling things I haven’t ever really felt before. Our conversations are so easy. She gets along with my friends. There is definite physical chemistry(though we haven’t done more than make out). The three dates we’ve been on are the most fun I’ve had this year.
I kind of let on how much I liked her on our last date and I’d say based on that conversation that she definitely is into me and likes spending time with me but probably isn’t at the same, can’t go an hour without thinking of you place that I am. That’s fine. I wouldn’t expect that, it’s the fact that I’m at that place already that has me freaked out.
So now I’m feeling anxious. I don’t want to come on too strong and scare her off. That’s not something I’ve ever had to worry about before when dating someone.
Our dates have been pretty spaced out. She’s a planner, and more social than me in general. So I asked her out this weekend and we ended up with a date next weekend.
She isn’t much of a texter so we haven’t really had any meaningful conversations except when we’re out together.
Basically, I’ve seen someone that I’m really into a few times. I want to actively move a relationship forward for the first time but I don’t want to scare her off.
Obviously you have to play some of this by ear but is there any guidance on how to pace things or keep the chemistry going when there’s a few weeks between dates or for gaging where her feelings are at?
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