So, let me explain this. I'm probably overreacting but I'm just way too insecure and I probably just need some positive energy.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are almost 6 months together, we started out as friends but it didn't stay platonic. He is the type of guy that never has crushes. I'm his second crush and first girlfriend, she was his first crush. I've had his Instagram account sinds we were friends, I to be honest don't know why but I do sometime lurk on it. I at first saw it on there that they kinda do talk a lot (in my opinion, not in his). I saw this probably 8 months ago. He has always told me that she is the best texter he knows, I know that he fell for her 'textgame.' This is the first thing that makes me insecure, I know that I'm not the best texter. I don't text that 'alive' as she does.
He told me that she is way out of her league, that's why he wouldn't date her. I kinda find this weird. Does this mean that if she was in 'your league' you would've date her? Would you then hit on her? Would've everything be different then? He always tells me that intelligence is really attractive, I know that I'm not intelligent. She sometimes makes jokes with a 'smart' depth in it. The way she thinks about life is the way he also thinks about it, I don't. She is like the type of person who he would've want to be together with but can't because she isn't interested in him.
I don't feel comfortable with them being friends. I wouldn't want to forbid him to talk with her. I just don't know what to do. I'm a really insecure person and I'm trying to work on myself. How can I feel more comfortable with it? Should I communicate this with him? I don't know, I'm probably forgeting so many details. English just isn't my native language. Please ask me stuff if something isn't clear enough. I really do need some advice! :(
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