I'm an 18 year old male and a 17 year old girl at my school in the year below has been snapchatting me heaps lately, in quite a flirty way. She has a boyfriend who I believe she has been dating for two years now, she works with one of my good friends at a local restaurant, and is apparently always saying to him how hot I am and talking about her current boyfriend and how she wants to break up with him but feels too guilty to do it because he's done nothing wrong. My friend has warned me that she has cheated on her boyfriend once before, and left a previous boyfriend to be with this (current) guy. Anyways when I heard this I stopped replying and it just made her message me more and more and she even told my friend that she has a crush on me.
I know her boyfriend is clingy but I know he is a decent kid and would be really hurt if he knew she was doing this, but she constantly goes on about how she doesn't want to hurt him by breaking up with him? It's like she thinks she can act horrible behind his back as long as nothing gets back to him. I'm not stupid and know that if I dated her she would likely just do the same to me. There is a party coming up soon that we are both going to and she has made jokes about us going out somewhere afterwards and has even invited me over once to study for an exam, so I am quite sure she is willing to cheat on him with me. My brother was recently cheated on, and I saw how shit that was for him hence why I have stopped talking to her, but she keeps messaging me.
My questions are why do people stay with partners they're not happy with? Especially when she likes someone else and is very attractive and wouldn't struggle to find someone else. Also why would she claim she doesn't want to hurt him because he's done nothing wrong but then be willing to cheat on him? and the last one do you think that if I were to date her she would do the same to me? I don't want anything to do with her now as she's clearly not the most loyal person but do people continue this cycle of behaviour or is a maturity thing they grow out of? Any replies would be appreciated.
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