So my boyfriend (25M) and I (23F) have been dating for 2 years. I have been unhappy with the relationship because he’s been really toxic and negative and would take out his anger on me. And he is also very boring, all he does his sit and play games and is “studying” stocks. He does not go to school.. I am in my last year of university..
Last night, I brought up how unhappy I was and I guess I kind of pointed out how even our sex life was bad because he doesn’t ever want to make out or does any foreplay.
We talked for about an hour and he asked if I saw us long term and I told him I didn’t think that far. So I asked him if he saw us long term, and he had to think for a very long time and said “I don’t know because I don’t think we are compatible”. I asked if he wants to date other girls and he told me part of him does because I’m his first girlfriend and he’s inexperienced. ... it kind of hurt me and he knew and said he loves me very much and I will find a better guy that will treat me right.
Of course I started bawling my eyes out. He walked me to my car, and we hugged good bye. I sat in my car for awhile, and he suddenly comes out and tells me he wants to give it another try /doesn’t want to ends things... so I said yes because I was sad at the moment.. but now that I think about it; he has put very little effort in the relationship; he doesn’t believe in college, wants to be a millionaire, but all he does is play video games and work for 3 hours a day. He still owes me a lot of money and I’m the one that pays for everything... I am definitely not ugly because I also have a lot of guys that try to hit on me...
I don’t know what to do . Even though we are back together, what he said “part of me wants to date other girls” still lingers in my head... I don’t want to invest in someone that will eventually want to date other girls.. but then again, he has no experience and I am his first girlfriend. What should I do? Am I dumb for wanting to give it another try?
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