(I'm doing this to my best friend he doesn't really know English that well and I'm writing for him).
It's been four years since i met a girl she's 16F and before when we talked, it already looked like she was interested in me. But we never had anything because of the distance.
Although, last year i moved in the same state as hers and we were much closer now. We started to talk much more in February and no longer after that, she confessed me, by her words "She was in love with me". It took a long time for us to met, it was in September and at the second week, we were dating.
In December i discovered that she hooked up with a guy in a party two months after the confessed me, she said me that after a discussion we had. I cried for 3 days straight. I was really hurt, even slept only for four hours during these days and couldn't even focus studying the tests of the end of the year. We didn't talked during this time.
Soon after, a friend of her came to talk with me to go speak with her because she was feeling down because i didn't send her any messages and thought that i was a little strange. And me being a idiot, i wrote a text message asking for forgiveness and when she answered i returned to be immersed in sadness 'cause when i found out about when she hooked up with the guy, she said that she regretted later and the response to the text, she said that wasn't.
She kept saying that she loved me and i stopped believing it and now here are the reasons of the motive i got sad. Even though we didn't dated when she did that: 1. She confessed me. 2. When she said that and obviously i felt the same, i cut friendships that i had with another girls to keep some sense of loyalty towards her and they were really cool people. 3. She already said that even wanted to marry me and really loved me and wanted to build a future. 4. And all this events she didn't told me anything about, probably being afraid that i would get hurt from it. 5. She confessed me in February and April she send me a photo of her 3AM of her when she got out of the party, the same one where she hooked up with someone but didn't told me anything back then and i only discovered that December when we were already dating...
It doesn't stop here, during all 2019 i hurt myself because of her doing, posting and saying things that really made me sad. Here some examples: Talking to me through audio messages and posts about the last times she dated people while i cried, posting photos that exposed her body too much. The funny thing during the year, i didn't said i was depressed for all that because we didn't dated just yet but i kept my loyalty because i really liked her and just couldn't stay being with another person. I got over of what happened in April and last year because I'm completely in love by her and i really love her.
Well, recently i discover one another thing that happened in 2019 that was what really opened my mind. She kissed a couple(a boyfriend and a girlfriend) in July and June although, she already told me about it but not the date of when occurred, i previously believed that it happened before we started talking. That opened my mind because i came to a conclusion meanwhile i was her little loyal dog, she was relating with another people and betraying the feelings that she said she had towards me and that hurted me even more in a way that i can't explain. I told her about all of that,about how i fell betrayed, she cried a lot and we discussed and things are now "resolved".
Ps:Back in April, the guy touched her and she told me that in my face when i asked her if she was ever being touched by another man. Thanks for everyone who read this.
Edit :I want to make something clear now, they met each other many times now and she is almost even losing her virginity with him. It's not a distance relationship they live in different but still really close cities.
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