There’s a coworker that I find very attractive, and after getting to know him a bit better I think we might be compatible in other ways too (beliefs, where we’re at in life, etc)
We’re friends, we’ve talked and spent a fair bit of time together outside of work (one on one).
He’s a very friendly, extroverted guy so it’s hard to gauge if he’s flirting or if he’s just like this with everyone. But based on his body language (touching a little more than necessary, looking over at me often in group conversations, messing with his hair), eagerness to talk and hang out, and repeated mentions that he’s single, I think he might be into me too? But I’m extremely bad at reading these things.
Is there a way for me to politely ask if he’s into me WITHOUT ruining our friendship or making him super uncomfortable if he’s not?
Is there anything I can say or do sort of asking him on a date directly or showing up to the door in a bathrobe with lots of wine (actual suggestion I got when I asked a similar question in another sub) to clear the air?
(Dating is specifically allowed in the workplace as long as the parties aren’t on the same team or reporting to each other. There’s no manager/subordinate dynamic at play, and we’re in different teams.)
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