I’m 17, never been in a relationship, and struggle a lot with my self-esteem, insecurity, and lack of motivation/discipline. I’m struggling to make it through school and take care of myself, even though I’m fairly smart. I’ve been feeling lonely and needy for a relationship for maybe a year and a half at this point. It used to make me very sad/upset, but now that I’ve gotten used to it (and am on antidepressants) it isn’t as violent an insecurity. But I still feel it, and it can get me down sometimes even when I know I shouldn’t be worrying about it. I’ve had a couple girls sort of interested in me, but it went nowhere and they quickly lost interest. Nothing makes me worried more than reading about people who sound just like me still struggling with these problems past 20, or past 25, or 30. At that point it seems terrifying. I don’t know if I could handle feeling like this for a whole decade, or longer. It makes me scared thinking about it, just the idea of growing up and never improving. I’m not in a position to really work on myself at the moment, but I’m hoping some of you could at least comment...
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