I used to be very comfortable with this person. I would be very open and excited to see him. After a lot of things happened between us, I began to feel uncomfortable talking to or making plans with him. I still care about him and I saw him recently, but seeing him actually triggered the bad times I had with him. It’s been about 1.5 months since we saw each other or talked consistently. I’m afraid that the bad times will happen again. I have PTSD, so when something triggers me, I hyperfixate on it. I’ve tried my hardest to be better about it and I have, but it doesn’t stop me from feeling uncomfortable. Idk how to fix this because I enjoy having him in my life. The bad times just doesn’t help. I do tell him about the triggers and texted him this morning (because we were talking about it) that I’m not as comfortable around him as I use to be. He hasn’t replied. What do I do?
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