At 18, I was a skinny/near anorexic guy going into college for my first year. 6ft, 135lbs. I made good friends that year, they had my back and I felt I had a major support group. However, most women I was interested in did not want anything to do with me past a friendship. I meet many women through my friends that first year at parties and I had the balls to talk to most. In the end, the girls I found attractive just didn’t see me in a sexual light. But I was aware my body made most of this failure. It would be rare for a girl to want a guy that has a frame of a little boy. Due to outside circumstances, I left that college (later continued with my education) and started to build myself..
Now at 22, I’m still 6ft but at 180lbs. Nearly all of that weight gain was lean muscle put on from the past 3 years of lean bulking + resistance training. Girls are treating me way different. But since I have 0 friends now, I am not meeting or interacting with women too much anymore. So now, whenever I see a girl I find very attractive, I look away so she can’t get the chance to judge me.
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