Me and my ex broke up a couple of months ago. The breakup was my fault, I was a bad boyfriend and she stuck around for a long time but I was very neglectful. I have been missing her more and more and reached out to her recently. I said I wanted to get back together and she said she didn't think it was a good idea because she was very hurt at the end of the relationship. I then we suggested we try out dating for a little while and see how it feels and she was open to it.
Before I reached out, she was texting me sometimes, asking me to hangout every so often. Basically she seemed to somewhat care about me. Now that I have been chasing her, she has withdrawn and not been very interested. I know it's because I get obsessive and needy. I just worry about it not working out and then I text her a bunch and kill her attraction.
I need help recovering from this. How can I stop obsessing? How can I stop being needy? How can I recover attraction? I tell myself that I will be okay whether it works out or not but it's all I think about now. I really think if I stopped giving off a needy vibe and gave off confidence I would have a much better chance.
Please no advice telling me to just give it up, I have a set period of time I am going to try to get it to work and then move on. I just need advice on how to best approach this. Currently I am seeing her about twice a week but I text her way too much.
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