Had a crush on a guy from work. He’s extremely attractive and was labeled the “quiet guy”. He’d stare at me a lot so I start making conversation with. We’d only really talk once a week if that and that’s only when he’s working away from everybody else. He’d keep up the convo, ask me questions, turn his music off when I come around, etc. Even though I had hopes of dating him, I thoroughly enjoyed just talking to him. I viewed him as a friend and even if the interest wasn’t mutual, I would’ve been okay with just being friends.
Things are going good and then shit hits the fan. My interest wasn’t a secret and let’s just say that everybody that I’ve spoken about him to informed me that he’s not a good choice. None of these people have reason to lie and they’ve been working with and around him much longer than me. He has a history of messing with girls then leaving them alone once he gets what he wants , lip service from other women at work, messed with a crackhead who just came back, etc.
I told him that I wanted to speak to him about the things people were saying and he immediately gets mad and runs to someone about it. This person tells me that I should apologize to him ......... Says that I basically shouldn’t be invading his privacy and questioning things like I’m his girlfriend. Guilty much? We never discussed it and when I tried to mention being told I should apologize it was obvious he didn’t want to talk about it.
I have told him that I was interested and I gave him my number on my own... he hasn’t used it. He never used it but stares and still tries to make eye contact at work. Some days he can’t take his eyes off me other days he’s ignoring my whole existence. I talked to a much older woman at work about him and she immediately said he’s not the one. He’s a cool guy but he’s not mature enough and probably shouldn’t trust him. I told her about the possibility of him getting “serviced” from others and she said well 9/10 he’s trying to see if I’d be that stupid/ desperate.
For a moment I never wanted to think he’d even be like that because he never gave the impression. He’d flirt but not sexually. He never lets me see him checking me out it’s always straight eye contact. But still, if he wanted me ... he sees all the other men at work basically in love with me. He would’ve been put in work to claim me but he hasn’t.
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