I mean I'm not an ugly guy but this girl is pretty attractive and she's 26, but she's acting like I'm a 11/10 with the voice of berry white. We video chatted like 4 times and we met on tinder. We matched like twice but honestly i didn't think anything would come of it because of how attractive she was. Anyway I decided to hit her up and she wanted to face time the next day after we chatted for a lil while through text.
She told me she's looking for a relationship and that if I'm not serious tell her now, but I don't know what she does because she avoided the question once and by like the 3rd video chat she's saying that she will make me fall in love with her and that she's going to treat me better than anyone else has...and it sounds too good to be true. We are meeting this weekend and she wants to stay over. At first she was like "I really like you so I don't want to sleep with you when we first meet." ....that's changed completely the more we talk.
This whole situation has me confused and I feel like I'm getting played. Shes always like "I'm going to do my best to make you happy" and we've only known each other like 3 days. I think shes really cool and she makes me happy, but it's weird that shes always complimenting like I'm a literal angel sent from heaven.
The things that have me worried are one: I have no idea what she does for a living and two I know she just moved from Milan (I remember this is the reason I didn't talk to her at first because Milan is like 6hours from me) to a city close to me and three I know she use to work at a club as a bartender/ hostess...
Anyway does this sound suspicious? and again I'm not ugly and I'm in decent shape, but I feel like I'm not close to the pedestal she's placing me on...maybe I'm really insecure but I don't feel like I am.
PS she's saying one of the problems now is that I want to wait too long to marry and I want to go back to the states( I'm in the military currently living in Italy) she doesn't want to live in the states...we just met and you talking about marriage!?
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