So this actually came to light in a really dumb way. I had a dream that my boyfriend(of 6 months) was hanging out with a girl at a hockey game & who I later found out was his ex but he had never mentioned it, in my dream I was really upset about him omitting this. I woke up and told my boyfriend and I noticed his body language was weird about the whole dream. So I asked him if he was actually friends with any of his ex’s and he said only with his high-school ex-girlfriend. The one he lost his virginity to. He said there weren’t any feelings left over between them, they were strictly friends and mostly received texts from her about hockey and he would never hang out with her by himself. But after I found out who she was, I saw that she’s the one who’s always posting old photos of them from high school(she’s a single mother). And last year before we met both of them went out together a lot. Concerts, dinners, hockey games, baseball games. My boyfriend is a social butterfly, everyone loves him and he has a massive group of friends but I can’t help but have this nagging feeling. Let me clarify: he has never done anything to make me not trust him and has always shown me a mountain of affection. I know I have my own baggage from a past marriage and I just don’t understand why I feel like this. Or how to get over it. I feel like the toxic person in the relationship.
How do I get over this feeling?
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