Alright so there is this girl who works in a supermarket I always go to. She stared at me for months.. mostly from far. Never paid attention to it. But she kept doing this and it became way to obvious. She even started to move closer to me when I was inside the supermarket. For example, i'm talking to someone and she comes really close and acts like she's busy with something but just stares at me, I noticed and the person with me did as well.
I made a move. She was working so not smart to have a long talk. She was nice. I know she has to be nice to customers but she was extra nice for me. Laughing a lot, smiling and nervous. Another time she was done working and she came up to me to say hi and we talked again. She laughed a lot about stuff I said which wasn't that funny. But still not a long talk cause I got nervous.
Days later she was with her father so she wasn't working. I was with my brother but I acted like she wasn't there cause I felt awkward. She then walked by on her own. My brother told me she looked really shy. Outside the supermarket I was talking to friends, 1 of them is a girl. She saw that. Literally since then she became cold. I send her a dm but she never read it.
Days later she walked by without saying hi or looking. But from far she was clearly staring at me. This kept going on. I also call a lot with people and everytime I was on my phone with someone she looking at me as if she wanted to know who I was calling with. I noticed her getting nervous when I got closer to her. Another time I walked up to her and she seemed kinda surprised I talked to her again.. idk exactly what we talked about but I gave her a compliment. She started smiling and looking to the ground.
Then... She out of nowhere started to avoid me. I got sick of all of it so I walked up to her but noticed she didn't want to talk but I then told her I liked her and would like to get to know her better. She then smiled again but told me she already had "someone" and she was sorry. But she's single.. at least all her social media says so and there is nothing to see of a guy.
Days later I tried to talk to her on snapchat but she reacted very very weird. She said she was clear. I don't even know what she meant with that? I only wanted to check if everything was ok. She wanted to ask me to leave her alone, no longer talk to her or contact her. Also not by using my friends. I was so confused by this message... but literally the same moment I got a follow request from a girl she's friends with. And it was cancelled really fast like wtf? Now that I look back, I think they were together that moment and I think her friend send me that message. She blocked me on snapchat but not on other social media.
Well I did exactly what she asked. Left her alone, don't talk just NOTHING. We both ignored each other but she then had to walk past me and my friend 2 times really close to me. And when she walked by after work I turned my head away and she then looked sneaky at me. This still happens... She still looks at me. she was even trying to find me by looking for me.. we also kinda bumped into each other and we both looked each other in the eyes but we both kept walking. She doesn't look so much when i'm close to her area. But when i'm more far away she looks a lot. Recently she was talking to a coworker and while they were talking I noticed her head moving to me and she then just looked at me even tho was having a conversation with someone else.
And now most recently... she walked really close to me. Like seriously close for no good reason. She could've walked other ways but no, she had to walk really close to me with her head to the other side. And when I was talking to someone I noticed she was looking the whole time.
I still don't talk to her since she no longer wanted me to talk to her but now she pretty much comes after me.. and she has no attention for other people there. Only me... i'm confused. She's also a few years older than me.
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