I (19F) stopped talking to this guy (19) because he would always comment on my body and I was getting irritated with it, but then he mentioned another girl coming into his job (someone he had a fling with btw) and he told me about how nice her ass was but she was a bitch and he didn’t want to talk to her. I had mentioned to him a few times before that I was insecure with my body and I’d prefer that he didn’t talk about it. All he talked about was sex. He made me feel stupid for asking him not to make sexist jokes and made me out to be the bad guy when I asked him to not text me while I’m working (I work from home). I feel like all these things were red flags but I didn’t want to stop talking to him because he was always hard on himself and very negative, but this was making me negative too? I didn’t notice the difference until I had a drunken epiphany (with some friends help and some tears) that he didn’t truly love me if he was treating me this way. I stopped having headaches, and not being able to sleep. Then he texted me yesterday trying to talk like before, like nothing had changed, like I hadn’t just asked him to leave me alone nicely. So I was short with him during these messages. He took it as me being a bitch (and I was, that’s the only way I could get it through his thick skull) and kept trying to make me make him feel better. I asked him to find his peace and blocked him everywhere. Does this make me an asshole?
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