My boyfriend and I live together and have been since February. When we go grocery shopping together, we split our groceries (we split rent) which I don’t mind but that means we buy double sometimes. There’s been several times where I’d buy chicken and I’d be busy all week to cook it and he’d just buy more chicken for himself and let mine go bad... not sure why he couldn’t just cook what was in the fridge. He’d get mad if I eat one of his apples. Or if he buys a 24 pack of energy drinks, he’d get mad if I drink one. He has protein bars from Costco and I grabbed one for a hike one time and he got mad when I did that. I buy stuff and don’t care if he eats it. He has literally asked me if he can use my huge jar of JAM for a sandwich once.
He just wrote on the energy drink container “really sara????” Then wrote on the protein box “don’t even think about it”
So I took a picture of the containers when I got home and sent it to him since he’s at work.
He said “I don’t want you eating my protein bars”
Then I said. “Fine I won’t eat them. Or anything. I’m just a “roommate””
Early this week, he said I need to be a “better roommate” because I need to “pick up after myself more” even though I do! He said “couples are roommates”
He said. “Seriously? Your really taking that roommate comment and letting your imagination run wild?”
I told him that my imagination isn’t running wild.
He said “ I’m sorry you took it the wrong way”
I replaced two of the energy drinks and left them on the counter and staying at a friends tonight since I’m mad at him. I’m mad he wrote that crap on the boxes, how he claims I’m “messy” and don’t clean up after myself even though I do... so when I left, I made sure everything was spotless. He’s been sleeping off and on on the couch for a month because he was “angry” that our bedroom was “messy.” There’s so many things I’m upset with him about and his excuse is that he’s “naive” when it comes to relationships.
I am not perfect and sure I leave a mess sometimes or leave a shirt or cup on the table... but I work at a psychiatric hospital on a violent ward and there’s just some days that I need to relax or sleep after work because of the stress.
So I stayed at my friends last night and my boyfriend didn’t even text me to ask me where I’m at. He hasn’t texted me today yet either.
What should I do?
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