Hi Everyone. I (F20) recently just rejected a guy (M21) after talking to him for about 10 days. We matched on tinder and there wasnt much of a spark at first but I thought he was good looking so I figured why not? We ended up exhanging snapchats and numbers. Next thing I knew, me and him facetimed every night this past week. We met for the first time yesterday and I dont know what it was but I was just not into it. He was a very nice guy irl, paid for everything, opened the door for me, etc.I dont really know what changed between the beginning of this week to yesterday when I was rubbed the wrong way. He also kinda had bad breath and didnt know how to kiss at all... I think that definitely played a part as well. I just didnt see the potential in person and I am also leaving for college pretty soon so I also took that into account. I let him down super easily because he was very much into me and looking forward to seeing me again. I just want to know am I bad person for rejecting him? I just feel so guilty and horrible for not being into it irl. I dont really know what changed and Im also quite new to the dating scene so I dont really know if knowing you dont want to go beyond the first date with someone is normal?
TLDR: I rejected a nice guy I met off of tinder after our first date because we didnt click irl and I feel like a bad person?
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