Hey y’all, so I’m putting myself out there and I can help but feel like I’m doing something wrong.
I’ve been commended on the fact that I listen well, give thoughtful responses, look good, have great interests, am able to carry a conversation and make a person feel wanted. All these are great, right?
People are intrigued until I send them a photo of me and then they’re not. It’s to the point where I lead with photos now just so I essentially start expecting a “rejection” rather than talking for a couple days and wasting time since they find something not to their liking...
All these rejections, it’s really hard to not turn into an angry and bitter person over all this.
Spare me with your toxic masculinity comment bs that attack me and tell me to “fix“ myself or finding ways to make myself better/more suitable for someone else. I’ve already worked on myself a lot and I’m happy with where I am. Thank you very much, but no thank you.
If I’m such a “great” person, why do I have a hard time finding a person to be interested in me? I have so many genuine interests and not just interests where I think I will go and meet someone.
Last person I really had a spark with, I was friends with her for awhile and then I lost her when we tried to make things romantic and push for that. There were also some fundamental communication issues that happened which ultimately killed it and I lost her as a friend which was depressing cause I loved it when we chilled out and just talked and hung out. There was no stress or anything. It was easy and fun and relaxing. Sadly, since her, I haven’t really felt a spark with anyone at all..
Sometimes I feel like I’ll never find my person and that I should just give up dating since even though I’m “good looking” there’s always some trait that they find out that they don’t like...
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