So, I met a guy on Tinder. We texted constantly for a week: good morning, good night, and throughout the day. And then last Saturday we had our first date by the beach. I thought it went well and during the date he mentioned our next date should be at this local restaurant or at his house. He said to text him and let him know if I was cool with that. We hugged at the beginning and even harder at the end of the date.
I thought I was pretty quiet and awkward during the date (he was doing most of the talking), so that night I texted him saying it was great meeting him and that I was sorry if I was a little awkward and quiet. He responded the next day saying "lol you weren't awkward, I was just babbling".
I responded then by saying he was outgoing and charismatic & proceeded to text him as normal about my day. Showing him a picture of my grandparents, who I was out with, holding hands and asking him "how cute are they??". (I realized later that this was kind of cringe and seems clingy). It's been over a week and he hasn't responded.
Did I scare him off? Am I being ghosted? I just want to be prepared if I am. I was really enthusiastic about him & feel as though my world is falling apart now. I don't know what to think.
I'm extremely new to the dating world and don't know how any of this works. I'm thinking of texting him on Wednesday and asking if he'd like to check out that restaurant he mentioned. Will this look desperate? Will I further humiliate myself?
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