I (F 22) always have great starts with guys but after 3-4 dates it fizzles out and I’m back to nothing. I realized awhile back that I was going for guys who clearly didn’t want relationships, so I tried to go for ones who seemed more open to that. I recently went on 3 really great dates with this guy (M 24) and I was really happy after the last one because we talked about doing things together in the future (aka we would continue to hang out). At the end, he said to let him know if I wanted to hang out this weekend. I texted him Saturday and asked if he wanted to hang out, but he said he was busy. That wasn’t a big deal to me, but he didn’t suggest hanging out another time when he was free. Then it dawned on me that I’ve been the on initiating everything so far. He hasn’t really been texting or snapchatting me since then, so I feel like he’s losing interest. I’m anxious about this going the way all the others go where they just fizzle out after a great start, and I’m starting to wonder if it’s something I’m doing wrong?? I also don’t want to text him and ask what he is looking for, but I feel like if I knew, then I would be less anxious. Should I wait for him to initiate us hanging out again, or move on, or just get over myself and text him?
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