The last few girls I’ve asked to hang out and grab a drink with have either ghosted or (in person told me they’re not looking for anything like that at the moment).
It’s taken me by surprise because I typically don’t ask someone unless I feel like we’ve built a good amount of rapport and connection (so I thought)
I even said stuff like “no pressure, but I find it a bit more fun getting to know someone over a drink than over a screen and I think we’ll have a good banter” so it’s not as tho I was going about it in some formal and off putting manner.
I’ve never asked out this amount of women before and used to only do so if I was 200% certain that they were interested in me so maybe I’m being harsh on myself/unrealistic and this is actually quite a normal day outcome these days?
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