I (23M) have a huge crush on my friend (21F) and I’ve opened up to her about my feelings. After opening up to her we both started sharing more time together than before, staying in the park at night up until 3am after work, talking about our past and experiences and what not. She told me that she is not mentally ready to be in a relationship yet and need some time because her past relationship was toxic. She always asks me how much I love her and wants me to describe my love towards her and I sometimes struggle to tell her because I couldn’t even speak properly when I’m in front of her, it’s like an angel staring at me. Honestly I love this girl so much she’s my first thought in the morning and the last thought before sleep and we’ve been friends for like 6 months.
Last night she got upset over something I did and I didn’t know how to apologise so she let me hold her hand and she hold back then I said sorry and she smiled at me saying “it’s ok”. Ngl this is the best I’ve ever felt, felt a rollercoaster of emotions at once and overwhelming joy. Btw I’ve never been in a relationship before, got rejected 2 years back and then never really met someone who seems like they’re the one until I met this girl.
Now I need your advice here people since I’ve never experienced something like this and she’s not mentally ready for a relationship, where do I go from here? is it the best to take things slowly and not push towards anything. Or I just keep making efforts less often then I was before. I would really appreciate your say on this and thanks in advance.
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/35g6yCl
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment