I'm getting frustrated. Mid 30s F, dating after my LTR of three years ended early this year. The problem I'm facing is how to properly express that I, a very tattooed female, is NOT wild and crazy, kinky, or whatever else these people trying to talk to me are thinking of me. I'm actually a professional with a career, home, hobbies, small business...I am specific that I don't party, I'm not wild. I am very specific in my dating profiles about what I do not want and how I am. It's like no one reads any of it. I guess that's normal no matter who you are?
How am I supposed to meet someone else that's like me? I like creative-types, and the "alternative" look is what I'm attracted to, but I seem to attract people with criminal records, addictions, no car, no job, or guys waaaay older than me (not into it)...it's making me nuts. With Covid making it impossible to join groups of like-minded people, do I just wait until later next year when (hopefully) we can do that again? I'm super introverted and shy and getting grossly sexual messages from strangers because I have tattoos and green hair is super disheartening. I can't count how many times I've gotten disgusted and uninstalled apps. It makes me want to just give up. It's not horrible being single, but I don't want to stay this way forever. I just don't know how to find the right people.
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