Hey Reddit,
At the start October I started seeing a girl [24F]. Originally when I asked her out she rejected me and said she wanted to be friends, so I walked away. About two weeks later she called me saying she wanted to give it a shot.
Since then everything was going well. She would pursue and call me constantly, slept together 2-3 times a week, introduced me to her close friends and also invited me over to her parents’ place a couple of times (her mum and dad really like me). She made it clear that she wasn’t seeing anyone else, and I told her that I had stopped seeing other people too.
At the start of December I called her to make some plans to grab dinner, and she said “she needs space, and has a lot of anxiety over this situation and feels stressed out”. I said that’s fine, call me if you want to chat and went no contact.
Last week was my birthday and she called me up wanting to take me out to lunch and gave me a present. She said her parents were asking how I was and she said that she organised a trip with her family in January and invited me to come along. When I went to say goodbye, she gave me the cheek instead of lips (...wtf?) and I went home.
After that she reached out again via the phone, texting me and calling wanting to hang out again. Three days ago we went out for a walk and when I went to give her a kiss on the lips she gave me the “I can’t, I don’t want to date right now and need to be alone, this relationship is giving me anxiety. I just want to be friends”.
I told her that we are just taking things slow at this point (I have never bought up having a relationship or being official). I’m not interested in being friends only and only want to spend time together if it’s more than platonic. I left and we haven’t spoken since.
This morning my friend sent me a screenshot of a photo of us...in her online dating profile. The picture was a recent one we took together on a hike. This means that potentially she’s been active on the app for the past couple of weeks (not sure if she’s met up with anyone though).
I feel very down/sick in the stomach at the moment learning this and annoyed at the way I’ve been treated. What are your thoughts on my situation and what do I do next?
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