I’ve always [M25] focused on my career and never talked with women besides two girlfriends I had in my past. I never got into the dating scene, I’ve always wanted to meet people in person randomly and if it works it works. However, because of the quarantine I’ve been lonely and desire a physical or even emotionally connection with someone. So I downloaded Bumble and Tinder, I tell all the women that I’m texting a completely transparent representation of my love life at the moment. Which is...
“I am not looking for something serious right now, I want to causally date to figure out what type of person I want in my life. I wasn’t able to do that in the past as I was completely dedicated to school and work, and find myself in a great position in life now. However, I feel that I don’t know anything about what I desire in a life partner. “
I tell women this, and that I’m not looking specifically for a relationship that leads to marriage. There have been women who tell me, that it doesn’t work with them but some say that’s okay they’re in the same boat. However, I sometimes feel like a scum bag talking to multiple women at the same time. I’m more used to dedicated myself to one person and seeing if it works out. However, my close female friend told me that in dating “never put all your eggs in the same basket”.
I’m not used to casual dating, and casual sex, so I’m really out of my comfort zone but I don’t feel that I’ll find a life partner without experimenting. Although I’m being fully transparent, I feel like a “fuck boy, or scum bag” because I’m separating my time between women (All female, 19, 21, 24, and 25).
Idk what to think of my situation, am I just overthinking things and should go with the flow?
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