I'm (27F) trying to figure out if I should give this guy a chance. I'm not really feeling it (after 2 dates), but I can see that he's sweet and genuine and if I work on it, I can probably talk myself into liking him more. I know I have super dismissive/avoidant tendencies and I can't really tell whether I'm "really" not into him or this is just the dismissive part of me getting defensive. On the other hand, I frequently and easily ignore my own true feelings and get myself hurt, and I'm trying to do less of that now.
Anyone have advice on figuring out which of the two it is? I want to listen to my gut feelings here, but I don't trust it anymore knowing how avoidant I am.
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