So I was getting to know this guy but things didn’t always feel right. I would get this gut feeling where you just know something isn’t okay. My family would tell me that it sounds like it’s just me looking for excuses and that this guy sounds like he has “potential” to be a good boyfriend. So yesterday I was playing fortnite with him and my kid nephews. And then someone joined our party and he kicked them out. I found this weird bc we accept anyone in our group as long as they’re not rude or picking fights. Then he gets a phone call and I heard him in the background say “cece, the party is too loud. Just text me okay” so I found it weird. I knew a girl had joined. Later in the evening I questioned him about the girl and he lied. He said Cece is a guy friend. Then I kept insisting I’m not crazy and that it’s a girl and for him to just say the truth. He admitted it’s a girl and that she likes him but he has set boundaries. So I told him clearly they are no boundaries if she has his fortnite, phone number to text him, and Snapchat and Instagram. Then he lied and said that Cece is his coworker but she’s in the day shift and he only sees her for 2 minutes when he gets in. But before that he said he met Cece on Xbox and they then realized they worked together which I found weird bc that doesn’t happen. People have the strangest usernames, they have to give you their username so you can find them. I think he met her in Fortnite. And he said he had known her for 1 week. When he was telling me he wanted to be exclusive and start dating and eventually build a relationship. But I can see he was just gaslighting me. I feel sooo lame bc I still feel bad. I think it’s the “lonely” feeling, that now I have to start all over again and date. But idk why it still affected me. Oh, and he just deleted me from Instagram. Oh, and I just had a same-day surgery for a fistula on Monday and then he did all this. I also complained that I’m looking for someone I can rely on and who’s there for me. My last text to him was “I know a day after my surgery and on Christmas week. What a horrible human” we were suppose to meet today to exchange Christmas gifts so I guess I’ll be burning his. Lol. Anyways, my advice is to always listen to your gut feeling. There’s a reason why we feel uncertain at times. I just wanted to let it out, so thank you to everyone reading this. And also, I found out this guy was still talking to other girls through Fortnite. What a weird coincidence how everything happened and how I found out. I guess I can say it was bc of Jupiter and Saturn aligning this week. Lol.
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