So, again I got myself into a situationship. Not a relationship, but also not just friends. I’m so done. This always happens to me. I feel like it’s because I don’t see the warning signs all the time. I want to desperately give love and receive love. I just don’t know what to do. I am going to a therapist to try to love myself more and to unlearn my unhealthy coping mechanisms. I know I overthink a lot, too.
We’ve known each other for seven months now. We have gone on five dates total. I’ve enjoyed the time I have had with him it’s just I feel like my heart knows it’s time to move on. His ex really did a number on him. She cheated on him and was mentally and emotionally abusive. When I told him that I still don’t know where we stand he says we need to spend more time figuring that out. Like we need to spend more time out together.
And with covid 19 it’s like nearly impossible. I made a big mistake too with sleeping with him, too. I should have never done that. I’m letting him have everything pretty much and not have to work for it. I’m done. I’m over it. My advice to anyone is DONT put someone work into someone that isn’t going to do the same for you.
Time to go back on the dating apps. I just got to keep putting myself out there.
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