How to deal with someone's past trauma?

I [24F] am dating a really wonderful woman. She is very kind and sweet. We can't meet due to the lockdown so we chat all day. It's great in a way because we really can get to know eachother by speaking so much but I feel like it may give rise to fears and anxiety. We both really connected and have been talking about the future. We both want to find the person to be with forever and get married. That said, her past has caused some trauma and she's quite cautious and questioning. It's okay too, we can talk about it in an healtht way. But, I want to be able to handle it right. I don't want to pressure her but I'm also afraid she will eventually run away from the fear. I'm not sure what to do. Should I try to reassure her, give her space to figure it out? It's making me nervous too now and if only we could meet I feel like things would be different. Any advice or just words would be nice. Thanks guys ♡

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