Does anyone have any advice how to have more of a "go with the flow" mentality when dating? For context, I (24F) ended a very rocky relationship almost a year ago with an incredibly messy breakup. I'm not really in a place to be looking for anything serious right now due to this, in addition to other reasons.
I found myself being able to have a pretty chill mentality when dating, but I'm approaching six months of seeing this guy (we are not seeing other people but both aren't in a place where we can be in serious relationships right now). Logically I know that I don't have the emotional energy and bandwidth to be in a relationship right now as I'm still very tired from what I went through emotionally with my ex. I also have other aspects of my life that I want to prioritize. However, recently, I'm struggling with knowing logically that I can't be in a relationship right now and that isn't what's best for me. I am worried I'm going to catch feelings for the guy I'm seeing but I also don't necessarily want to walk away from him. I think if I get to place in the future where I want a relationship and he also does, then I think that would be something that could be interesting to explore and has potential to work. I'm finding it a bit hard right now to "go with the flow" and keep my expectations low and I was wondering if anyone has good tips or advice on how to do this? At the moment, dating others isn't really an option due to Covid and honestly I think I prefer to date one person at time as I get older.
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