So there’s been some kinda flirting I guess over the last 4 months I’ve known her, but nothing serious. We’ve slept in the same bed and nothing has happened.
On Saturday night we were falling asleep and I felt her move her hand on my thigh, and it just happened. She’s absolutely stunning and far and beyond the most attractive girl I’ve ever been with. We both had been drinking a lot, and my memory is kinda hazy but I remember most things. I told her I liked her before I fell asleep and she just said “two sides of the same coin,” and I just fell asleep.
We woke up and I told her I liked her again, and she just said “why? I’m a wreck?” I mean, she kinda is emotionally, She just got out of something a few months ago with a guy she’s been on and off with for 3 years. The guy was legitimately diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, and I get how that is. I dated somebody for 3 years with borderline personality disorder. But I took a year off for myself, and hadn’t slept with somebody since Valentine’s Day of 2019 to work on myself. But I enjoy being around her, I’m comfortable around her, I just like her as a person. I told her the latter part when she asked why I like her. We didn’t talk much about it but all she said was she doesn’t really hook up with friends. We cuddled a bit and I asked if I could kiss her, and she said no. The weird thing is, she said it wasn’t a mistake, but it’s not something she does a lot with friends.
Her roommate told me I didn’t put our friendship at jeopardy or anything, but not to talk to her about it and not to take anything at more than face value. What does that even mean? We had sex? There’s almost always more than face value.
We hung out and it was normal, but it was like we didn’t hook up 5 hours ago. Almost nothing changed. We haven’t talked since.
What do I even do? Do I just not talk to her about it? I told her if there’s nothing there romantically then I can handle it like an adult and not bring it up again. I don’t really remember what she said.
I get it. I’m younger. We were drunk. But I honestly thought she knew I liked her, and that there would be some kind of change in dynamic if we did.
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