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Friday, December 18, 2020

Scared that I’ll forever be trapped in a paradox of wanting people who don’t want me and not wanting the ones that want me

(20F) I overthink irrationally about things like this, but it’s hard go convince myself that this fear of mine is just anxiety. I can’t help wondering if the reason why I haven’t been in a relationship yet is not just because the main person I wanted didn’t reciprocate the same feelings, but also because since then (whether it’s been on a dating app or in real life) the people i’ve been interested in show little to no interest in me while people who like me are those who I’m not that attracted to. Does this mean my standards are too high?

I’m only 20 years old and three years ago I didn’t date at all. I’m still pretty new to the dating scene so I try to tell myself that once I meet the right person I will want them and they will reciprocate feelings. But part of me worries that even when the “right person” shows up I may not be interested for whatever reason.

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