Hi guys. I hope you are all well.
I need your advice because a few months ago I invited a beautiful girl to surf with me and then we stayed on the beach until night. That first meeting was really incredible, the chemistry was absolutely fantastic. I felt the connection and it felt like she was in my vibe too. But despite that I decided not to take any chances and I didn't kiss her on the first date because I didn't want to fuck an amazing date, so I decided to wait for the second. After that, we exchanged many messages in the following days and the conversation was good, in fact, I think we agreed. In one of those conversations, she told me that maybe we could have something, but not now.
I said okay, but in my mind I ended up creating expectations and I think that was my mistake, because after that I started to act more insecure and in a hurry to have something with her and I think she noticed, in fact I'm sure about this, because before she used to send me messages sometimes and after that she never had the initiative to start a conversation again. It was always me. But surprisingly we had a second date, it was good, but it wasn't like the first, I seemed more insecure with myself, despite this I told her openly that I wanted to have something with her and she rejected have something in that moment leaving the door open for the future. But then I honestly told her that I understood but I wasn't going to wait for her because I wasn't going to wait for an uncertainty and, as such, I was going to be with other girls.
After that we talked more sporadically, and when we talk the conversation goes extremely well and it's funny, but I always have to be the one to start the talk, something I don't want to do, so now it's been a week since I dont text her, but I still miss talk to her. Oh and she removed me from close friends on instagram, I'm not sure why.
What do you think? At least I wanted to be friends with her, because I genuinely love talking with her, but the truth is that I still think of her often and I don't know if that would do me any good.
I also don't know if I have / had or will have any chance with her, what do you think?
Do you think I should take a break and then try again or just give up?
Oh and I have been with other girls in the meantime, but none has caused me what it does. It's a combo of beauty, personality, dont know, she looks so fucking perfect man
Guys and Girls please help that overthinker 😅
Thank you and stay safe 🤙
P.S: English is not my first language, so I hope didn't make too many mistakes ahah
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