I (mid 20s F) have dated a couple guys this year. What keeps happening is that everything is fine for a few weeks or a few months, then either the guy gradually stops texting, or in one case he decided he had too much going on already with kids from a previous marriage, etc.
I am not someone who gets wrapped up in a person. If things don't work out I just revert all focus to my career, grad school, fitness, etc., but it's still a little sad, and it takes me time to get over the guy.
That being said, with a couple of the guys I dated, they randomly reached out to me via text a couple months later. Both times, it happened nearly the moment I got over the guy.
What is this? The universe at work? Do men have an internal alarm bell that tells them when that girl they dated 3 months ago has gotten over them? Is that old saying about "if you want something let it go" true?
I have always believed that if you want something you should go for it - a job, a degree, a new hobby. So what the heck is going on here?
Tl;dr: Why do guys wander back into my life the second I get over them?
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