Met a guy on a dating app and we talked all through the first lockdown. We had loooooads to talk about and it was natural and fun. He started taking a long time to reply but I put it down to us being in lockdown but finally we met and went on several dates.
It was fun and we really got along well and talked for like 7 hours. We just clicked. It felt slightly platonic he wasn’t flirting With me (the waiter was flirting with me more than he did lol). And for a hot guy, he seemed more nervous than I expected. He kept begging me for compliments asking if I liked his shirt, hair, shoes etc, and went on monologues about his problems (he’s long term unemployed).
He didn’t ask me many questions and was slow to reply after dates, didn’t initiate texts after dates.
Anyway, he ignored my text for 3 weeks after our third date. He replied eventually to say sorry and said he would love to keep talking but can only send a message once a week. I told him I needed better communication.
Then he said he was depressed and it made me feel bad
Today after three months of silence, he texted me to wish me a happy Christmas and ask how I’m doing. I’m not sure he’s gonna mess me about again?
Why would he string me along like this, does he see me as not relationship worthy?
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