I(M, 21) finally saw my ex(F, 22) after 8 months of not seeing each other. She randomly popped up to me after 3 months of no contact when I thought there was no hope asking how I’ve been. I took the opportunity by asking her for a linkup to which she agreed to. I surprised her by taking her to a restaurant which I knew she would like and then took her to a cocktail bar after. She arrived wearing a wig (she knows that’s my fave look for her) and a revealing top which surprised me. Throughout the evening, there were times where she was stroking my face/beard, putting her legs on top of mine, holding my hands and complimenting my appearance which I didn’t expect from her. Also, at the cocktail bar, I fully expressed to her for the first time how I still have strong feelings for her and want her back. She started crying every time we spoke about the past, all the good memories and how I wish things worked out differently between us. In addition, she basically confirmed to me that she’s been single since the breakup almost a year ago. She told me that she still cares about me so much but is unsure whether she wants to be in a relationship atm. I made sure to address the changes I would make if we were to try again and rekindle the romance we once had. Any mention of our past relationship had her crying so I feel like she’s just as affected as me by the whole breakup.
I was wondering if and how should I approach setting up a second date with her. Yesterday night made me realise how much she means to me and how she’s always been the girl of my dreams. I really don’t want it to be the last time we see each other. I asked her if she wanted to watch a programme on ft later (like we used to in the relationship) and she said “Yeah maybe” but I’m scared I’m being too much.
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