Not long ago I (19m) started University and on my first semester I met a girl (19) but she was dating someone back then. At the beginning of this year they broke up and she started texting me asking for some song advise and we've been talking since. The fist time we met it was over a zoom call from our faculty and we had a rly good vibe, we downloaded co star and were a 100% match, I'm not that much into astrology but it was funny to have that and gave us an inside joke. We started talking a lot more, she would ask me if I could video call her every day and we started to bond and also flirt, she would say that I am hot a lot and also that she rly likes my humor and that she's looking for someone with a good humor. Any way, on spring break we and a couple other friends, rented a house near our city and spent a couple of days there. The first day everything was going great between me and her the first day but then the rest of them she kind of pushed me away and started to be closer to other people. During the second day I told her I liked her liked her, and she said she only "wanted to be friends, but the kiss was great" lol. When we got back I saw her ones more as just friends. Time went by and we talked a lot, she started to flirt again so I did too, we had a party at my place and at the beginning of it she was with me a lot but then she started to flirt with other people, so I understood she liked me only as a friend. I sort of pulled away a little bit to manage what I was feeling and move on from any romantic intentions towards her, but she started to call me more, and invited me to her place to a party, buy no one else could go so it was just the two of us. There she told me there was a friend of hers who liked me over Instagram (she posted a lot of stories with me, when she saw other people she didn't), so she introduced us. Time went by and we kept talking, but suddenly she got mad at me because of my jokes, she said it wasn't funny any more (to make flirty jokes) and I said it was fine, I'd stop because we was just m8s and I understand some friends don't like flirty jokes (to be clear, I also do this type of jokes to my male friends, in Mexico we call it albur). Then, suddenly, she said we hadn't talked in a while and she wanted to talk, we made a video call (she lives far away, most the time she is in another city as college is online) and she said she has started to form feelings towards me, I asked her since when and she said it had been going on since we all went on that trip on spring break. Then she said it was up to me what I did with that info, so I asked her if she would like to go on a date next time she is here, and she said yes. She said I just had to pick between her and the friend she introduced me to, so I sent a vn explaining what had happend and that we were gonna see if we could make it work (to her friend, who I haven't met in person), but she told me not to send that, that if I had feelings for her the least I could do is keep her out of that and make up an excuse to say it wouldn't work. Lately we've been talking and it's been more flirty and date like, but I'm not sure if we should try to date, sometimes I think it might be kind of a toxic situation; why did she not tell me before or why did she push me away so many times if she did have feelings for me as I did for her. She says she likes me and all that stuff but rarely wants to talk, and when she does she tells me, and I say I'm ready but she takes like an hour to finally talk and then in the middle hangs up, says it got cut but tells me to give her like 30 min, then doesn't text me until like an hour past and I asked her if she was ok, she said time got out of her hand and then ignores me till like 2 am and says she is srry but she was watching a show with her parents and having dinner. If she just said "imma go have dinner" it would be fine, but she just hangs up, says she'll be back in 30 mon and goes away for like 3 hours. She wasn't like that before. When we talk she's affectionate but at the same time kind of distant
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